The Official Rant Thread

[Kléber]

Conspiracy

[Rockymods]

Well now it is working here but every time I requested a new password it would say to both my email and my username that I do not exist. It is quite frustrating. I'll see if it works at my other house tomorrow.

[Aumaan Anubis]

Conspiracy

A conspiracy indeed.

[neodos]

What conspiracy?

[Kléber]

huh'?

[Supermodder911]

Your my neighbor.

[Aumaan Anubis]

Alright, so, as has been made public, I like this girl that I've known for five years. I've liked her for three, and I want to ask her out, but am unable to because she's got a bunch of stuff in her life right now, it's a bit difficult to actually meet her somewhere.

Anyway, I had a dream about her last night. In the dream, I was askin' her out in person, when somehow, I reverted back into AIM, and asked her out of that instead(I dunno how it transitioned, but it did). Anyway, I forget the exact words, but she refused.

Now; This tells me a few things.

1) I was dreaming about her, and I actually frequently do, so obviously, I'm crazy.

2) This is the only dream when I've asked her out, the other dreams, we just spent time together. This tells me that I'm actually at the point where I'm able to take her aside and ask her out. No more stalling and chickening out, I can actually do it.

3) She denied me in my dream(Isn't that funny? Can't even get her in my dreams ), so I have some internal doubt about the outcome.

4) Since in my dream, I reverted back into AIM and asked her, instead of staying person to person, I'm still a bit frightened, and still want the 'safety' of not being face to face when asking.
I've actually been debating whether to call her over the phone and ask her, but really, I think I'm gonna try person to person.

5) When we met in my dream, we were at the school I currently go to. So, I still have the urge or necessity to be comfortable, sorta' in that safe and familiar zone.

It was a mind-opening experience, for me.
But it came with some negativity while I was thinking about it.

1) If she denies me, it's going to hurt, and it'll hurt hard. This is about a girl I've liked(thought about every day), for three years. To my subconscious at least, that'll be 3 years of my life wasted.

2) I haven't seen her for like, a year. And that was only for like, 1 hour, and she was talking with her friends for a long time. Do I actually like her, anymore? Or am I just in love with my memory of her? Basically, I ask myself, do I know who she is anymore?

[Remnant Samurai]

that shit deep man good luck with her ae my advice is to not ask her over aim or messenger or txt it makes you sound like an idiot.

Good Luck

[Dragonfire]

Hmmmm, u should bring her to dinner at ur house, thats a way to fin out who she is

[DoorM4n]

Ok, just remember this dude: You decide every aspect of your personal future. If you want something to happen, make it happen. Do not fear their response, take risks to get the things you want most. You control your future. If you let fear control your actions, then fear will control your future.

However, you haven't seen her in a year? How do you suppose you will keep close relationship if you don't see her?

[Dragonfire]

Yeah, whats her current location status for now? ya know, moving soon, staying, travel, etc

[Aumaan Anubis]

However, you haven't seen her in a year? How do you suppose you will keep close relationship if you don't see her?

Well, it's not a full year. More like...8/9 months, or so. And yeah, that doesn't seem much better, either. And that's something that worries me, which is probably why I won't ask her until the summer, which isn't too far away. We talk over AIM and stuff, and it's a good friendship, but yeah, I get your point. And I guess I'm not entirely sure, yet.

Yeah, whats her current location status for now? ya know, moving soon, staying, travel, etc

I know where she is... Not off-hand, of course, but I can find out pretty easily.[/quote]

[DoorM4n]

Just please remember this Aumaan Anubis

You can do anything you desire. Don't make yourself regret the fact that you didn't ask this girl out because of fear of her response.

[Dragonfire]

I still live in fear of rejection and i have a fiance, lol

But for location i meant is she staying put? moving soon? traveling much? etc.

[Aumaan Anubis]

But for location i meant is she staying put?

She actually moved recently(I talked to her for an hour last night), but I can still find out where she lives.

Just please remember this Aumaan Anubis

You can do anything you desire. Don't make yourself regret the fact that you didn't ask this girl out because of fear of her response.

Haha, no problem there. No matter the response, I do plan to ask her out. I've thought about this for a long, long, time, and I could never forgive myself if I didn't.

It's just frusturating not being able to see her in person for such a long time.

[Dragonfire]

It's just frusturating not being able to see her in person for such a long time.

Time to make some arrangements i would say Buy her a dozen roses (hopefully she isnt elergic)

[Aumaan Anubis]

It's just frusturating not being able to see her in person for such a long time.

Time to make some arrangements i would say Buy her a dozen roses (hopefully she isnt elergic)

Yeah.... no?
I'm not actually going out with her yet

That'd be sorta' weird.

Unless, of course, you mean, bring her them when I ask her out... but then, I dunno, that just seems unusual.

[NotZachary82]

Everybody thinks I "bought" my General Grade 2 account, just because they beat me in team games, when I have my 50 in Lone Wolves ...

plus, I want Recon armor. I don't know why, but I think it would be awesome to have ...

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[Dragonfire]

Buy her a dozen roses, go to her house, and ask her out for dinner at a nice resturant

[Aumaan Anubis]

It's complicated.

I probably won't see her again 'till next year(our high schools play football against each other, we see each other at that game), unless I ask her out.

I could totally show up at her house sometime, but my parents would have to drive me, and I ain't doing that. I'll be getting my license during the summer, hopefully, so I could do something like that...

I don't really know, many possibilities.

I was personally thinking of asking her to a movie over the phone, and once I got there... somehow ask her for a real date?
That'd be weird, though. I'd much rather bump into her somewhere, but that'll never happen.

I dunno...

[Dragonfire]

Damn man, u wry too much, lol. Pretty soon ur gonna have to suck it up and ask her out for a date.

To tell ya the truth, im trying to help ya, but ur fear of rejection is hlding u bk for reasons (to me) sound kinda uncertain in a way.

"If you don't, someone else will."

^Remember that

[Rockymods]

Damn man, u wry too much, lol. Pretty soon ur gonna have to suck it up and ask her out for a date.

To tell ya the truth, im trying to help ya, but ur fear of rejection is hlding u bk for reasons (to me) sound kinda uncertain in a way.

"If you don't, someone else will."

^Remember that

Oh so true.. Then you will live with painful regrets and jealousy.

Movies are always a good way to go.. LET HER CHOOSE..heh... If you are good friends then it shouldn't be a problem of strange awkwardness or anything. My own personal thing is starting to talk to them on the phone at nights before asking them out. eh.. my love life has become very complicated recently though.

[Aumaan Anubis]

Damn man, u wry too much, lol. Pretty soon ur gonna have to suck it up and ask her out for a date.

Dude, I have absolutely no problem asking her out. It's getting to the point where we're face to face and in that certain conversation that's the difficult part.

To tell ya the truth, im trying to help ya, but ur fear of rejection is hlding u bk for reasons (to me) sound kinda uncertain in a way.

I almost don't care whether I get rejected. Don't get me wrong though, it'll hurt a hell of a lot more than I think it will, and I do want her to say yes, but at the moment, I just want to ask, regardless of the outcome.

And I have talked to her. I have tried to get together for a movie or something, but she can't do anything with anybody, in terms of hanging out. She's extremely busy, and she's got complicated stuff going on right now, so it's not for lack of trying.

[OwnZ joO]

What does she do that she can't hang out with anyone?

[Dragonfire]

What does she do that she can't hang out with anyone?

Thats what im wondering...

But if need be, try and work around HER schedule, then she'll know that ur trying to work things out